who-am-i-ghosting

Ranks unanswered conversations by relationship weight and stake, then drafts re-engagement lines.

84|37|Updated May 23, 2026
One-click install
npx skills add https://github.com/legioncodeinc/vibe-coding-tools --skill who-am-i-ghosting-legioncodeinc
Or copy as Structured Prompt for Agent▼
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Skill: who-am-i-ghosting
Source: https://github.com/legioncodeinc/vibe-coding-tools/tree/main/src/quarantine/skills/keep/who-am-i-ghosting
Command: npx skills add https://github.com/legioncodeinc/vibe-coding-tools --skill who-am-i-ghosting-legioncodeinc

SYSTEM DOCUMENTATION & REQUIREMENTS

💡 This Skill includes references (resource) components.

What problem does it solve? Sorting unread messages by date surfaces newsletters and cold outreach while the client question that actually matters sits buried. This Skill finds the conversations you have left hanging across email, Slack, and other captured channels, ranks them by what the silence costs rather than how old they are, and separates what you owe from what others owe you. ## Core Features & Use Cases - Evidence-based ranking: Scores each thread on directness of address, relationship weight inferred from 12 months of interaction history, and what the other party was waiting for, with the arithmetic shown per item. - Three-list output: Produces a capped owed list (max 7), a ball-in-their-court list, and a write-off list with explicit permission to drop dead threads, plus a suppression tally proving the gates worked. - Drafted re-engagement lines: Generates a ready-to-send message per owed item, held at an approval gate so nothing is ever sent automatically. - Weekly routine: Offers to install a Monday 07:30 routine that reads its own past reports, escalates repeated items with changed tactics, and never resurfaces threads you already closed. - Use Case: Ask "who am I ghosting?" before a weekly review and receive a report showing the five conversations that actually need replies, each with a score breakdown and a drafted response. ## Quick Start Ask your assistant "who am I ghosting?" with the Littlebird MCP connected to get a ranked report of unanswered conversations with drafted replies.

Frequently Asked Questions about who-am-i-ghosting

High-intent search queries and answers about installing and using this skill.

FAQPage Schema
How do I find emails and messages I forgot to reply to?▼

Ask "who am I ghosting" with the Littlebird MCP connected. The skill sweeps 45 days of captured messages and inbox snapshots, gates out newsletters and group noise, and returns a ranked list of at most seven threads where you owe a reply, each with a drafted response.

How does the skill rank unanswered conversations?▼

It scores each thread on three axes: directness of address, relationship weight inferred from 12 months of interaction history and recurring meetings, and what the person was waiting for. Days cold sets the message form, not the rank, and every item shows its score breakdown.

Does it require the Littlebird MCP to work?▼

Yes, the skill requires the Littlebird MCP on a Power or Pro plan and stops if no Littlebird tools are available. A Gmail or Outlook connector is optional but improves coverage by providing real unreplied threads as the spine of the analysis.

Can it send the drafted replies automatically?▼

No. Every drafted re-engagement line is held at an approval gate where you choose send, edit, hold, or write off per item. The skill never sends anything and never infers how the other person feels from silence.

What are the limitations of message capture analysis?▼

Capture only sees threads that appeared on your screen, so a thread you never opened may be invisible and the list is a floor, not a census. Replies sent through channels Littlebird never saw, like phone or in person, also make every item provisional.

How is this different from tracking meeting commitments?▼

This skill tracks unanswered conversations in message threads, including ones where nothing was promised. Promises made in meetings and captured in meeting summary action items belong to the commitment-tracker skill, which owns those items.