ljg-relationship

Analyze relationship conflicts and recurring interpersonal patterns with structural assessment.

Updated Mar 29, 2026
One-click install
npx skills add https://github.com/zizhenchen47-oss/claude-skills --skill ljg-relationship-zizhenchen47-oss
Or copy as Structured Prompt for Agent▼
Please help me install this Agent Skill.
Skill: ljg-relationship
Source: https://github.com/zizhenchen47-oss/claude-skills/tree/main/ljg-relationship
Command: npx skills add https://github.com/zizhenchen47-oss/claude-skills --skill ljg-relationship-zizhenchen47-oss

SYSTEM DOCUMENTATION & REQUIREMENTS

What problem does it solve?

This Skill helps users understand why a relationship feels stuck, tense, or repetitive by separating surface conflict from deeper structure and recurring patterns.

Core Features & Use Cases

  • Structural diagnosis: Examines exchange, power, boundary, stage, and narrative layers to locate where a relationship is breaking down.
  • Pattern detection: Looks for repeated scripts, transference-like reactions, resistance, and unconscious repetitions across different relationships.
  • Guided dialogue: Uses careful questioning and reflective mirroring to help users describe one concrete scene, then gradually reveal the underlying dynamic.
  • Diagnostic output: Summarizes findings as a relationship structure map with a core insight and a question the user can keep thinking about.
  • Use case: Helpful when someone wants to understand conflict with a boss, partner, parent, teammate, or friend instead of receiving direct advice.

Quick Start

Use the ljg-relationship skill to help me analyze my current relationship problem, identify the structural and repeating patterns behind it, and summarize the result as a clear relationship map.

Frequently Asked Questions about ljg-relationship

High-intent search queries and answers about installing and using this skill.

FAQPage Schema
How do I analyze the hidden structure behind a recurring relationship conflict?▼

Relationship analysis examines exchange, power, boundary, stage, and narrative layers to locate where dynamics break down. This structural diagnosis separates surface tension from deeper repeating patterns to produce a clear relationship map.

What causes power imbalance and repeated relational loops in interpersonal dynamics?▼

Repeated relational loops stem from unconscious scripts, transference-like reactions, and resistance across interactions. Pattern detection traces these psychological repetitions by having you describe one concrete scene, then gradually revealing the underlying dynamic driving the tension.

Can I use relationship analysis for work conflicts with a boss or teammate?▼

Relationship analysis applies to work, family, romantic, and friendship dynamics. It is suited for understanding tension, power imbalance, and boundary problems with a boss, partner, parent, teammate, or friend when you need structural insight instead of direct advice.

How do I identify boundary problems and transference patterns in my relationships?▼

Identifying boundary problems and transference patterns uses staged questioning and reflective mirroring. You describe a specific conflict scene, and guided dialogue gradually uncovers transference-like reactions and resistance markers, mapping them onto a five-layer structural assessment.

What is the best way to understand relationship tension without receiving direct advice?▼

The best way to understand relationship tension without direct advice is diagnostic dialogue. Guided questioning helps you articulate a concrete scene, yielding a relationship structure map with a core insight and a reflective question to keep thinking about.